
| Location | Clarkston Airdrie |
| Age | 6 years |
| Date of Birth | 31/05/2002 |
| Date of Death | 17/02/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,600 since 17/02/2009 |
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♥«´¨`•°B E N °•´¨`»♥
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MY BEAUTIFUL GERMAN SHEPHERD
MY BIG CUDDLY FURBABY.
YOU BROUGHT SO MUCH JOY INTO OUR LIVES, LOVE YOU BEN FOR ETERNITY XXX . MISS YOU BEN XXX
Today ,Tuesday 11.30 am 17 th Feb 2009 our special big guy, Ben fell asleep forever ,we lost u to
cancer, we got you when u were just six weeks old , and what a terror u were ,but we loved u
anyways , u have been our lives for the past six and a half years and we will cherish that forever .
it's just not fare , u are to young to go to heaven , u should have passed in ur sleep at a ripe
old age , but sadly that was'nt to be , our hearts are broken without u, u will always be in our
hearts ,we love u big guy ,
Ben was our wean,just the three of us,always together.
Ben was so special to us and to everyone who knew him , everyone loved him , when christmas arrived
my mum used to give me twenty quid to get him toys and markies , we spoiled him rotten ,, Birthdays
we celabrated too , Ben will be sadly missed by all , last night ( monday 16th) we had so many
visitors to see him , before he left us , i was amazed ,so many people are going to miss him ,, if i
get that many visitors before i go, i will do well ,,
Ben's fav things , he loved his long walks up the walkway, and also ayr beach he loved his markies
and his fried steak well done i might add, also his strawberry cheese cake we sat and shared one
last nite ,and he really enjoyed it , but what he loved most in the world was the sunsine yes
sunshine, when my back door was open and the sun was shining it created a shadow diagonally towards
my garage so if i shook the door ben would chase the shadow he loved it so much, so i would torment
him by chanting " ooooh the sunshine is out to play" he would go bonkers and run for the door, the
same applied to a torch u would only have to say the word torch and he would sit at the cupboard
door where the torch was kept ,we had lots of fun in the time we were together and i will cherish
every minute of it for the rest of my life ...i have video's of u and thousands of photo's of u too
, as you know that photography is my favorite past time
As i said, Ben loved to pose for the camera, everywhere we went i took my camera, even up the
walkway on any normal day , cause there was never a day he would'nt surprise us doing something or
other , he was remarkable , very intelligant , trustworthy and very protective , our family is not
complete anymore without him
PLEASE READ MORE ABOUT BEN IN MY GARDEN ...
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GOODNITE OUR SPECIAL BOY
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With heavy hearts; and a tear in our eyes
After all these years; we must say goodbye
Please understand; we've done all we could
If there was anything we could do; you know we would
I'm sitting right here; gently rub your ears
While I talk to you softly; trying to hold back the tears
The memories you gave us; we'll never forget
Especially the ones; of the day we all met
One last hug; and one last kiss
You have no idea; how much you'll be missed
To look into your eyes; this one last time
You tell me it's ok; you know it's your time
Close your eyes now; and go to sleep
We’ll pray to the Lord; you're soul he'll keep
Go in peace now; our good friend
We’ll stay right here with you; until the end
Dream of that special day and time
When we'll meet at the Bridge; and all will be fine
We'll run and play; side by side
With a soft warm feeling; deep down inside
Your memory will live on; in each one of us
You’ll always be number 1; to all of us
Have a safe journey; through the night
I promise when you awake; you'll be in God's light
So with heavy hearts; and tears in our eyes
Just for now my friend; we say goodbye
We love you Ben, and always will.
You may be gone son, but we will
Never forget you. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE NUMBER 1.....
IN OUR HEARTS......
GOODNITE OUR SPECIAL BOY
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IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER BEN XXX
BEN , THERE IS NOT ONE DAY THAT PASSES THAT WE DON'T THINK OF YOU MY BOY , I TELL U EVERYNITE AS I
AM ON MY WAY TO BED THAT I LOVE U AND MISS U VERY MUCH XXX
OUR SPECIAL BIG GUY ALWAYS AND FOREVER XXX
To light your way sweetheart. xxx
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♥ ANOTHER LIT CANDLE ♥
(Author Unknown)
Our prayers are offered, our eyes wet with tears,
so sad when we hear this happening,
seems all of a sudden too many are passing.
We do what we can, but we aren’t the Great Maker.
He lends them to us, and they give us their love,
Its what they do best, it’s their gift from above.
Tonight, when you're grieving and missing him so,
just know you have friends,
some you don’t even know.
Our candles are burning,
to give him some light,
on his final last journey
as he goes home tonight.
Another lit candle to brighten his way,
another lit candle at the end of the day.
Our babies are family and try as we might,
seems nothing we say or do makes it feel alright.
Great Maker in Heaven, all angels and saints,
receive my dear baby, give him gladness and light.
Another lit candle to brighten his way,
another lit candle at the end of the day.
Our candles are burning
to give him some light,
on his final last journey,
as he goes home tonight.
AMEN
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Sometimes.
Sometimes if I am very still, I can feel them
Not with my fingers that used to weave their way
through their fur...but with my heart.
Sometimes when I'm quiet, I can see them
Not with my eyes that used to shine
at the sight of their faces ~ But in those
special places nestled deep inside.
Sometimes when I'm high on the mountain,
I can hear them
Not with my ears that captured the happy
sounds they made
But from echoes in my memory.
And sometimes...
the lonely times, I feel a terrible kind of sorrow
Not in my mind that cried out in anguish when they left
But from a pain nurtured deep in my soul.
Sometimes....only sometimes...
that pain can be hard to bear. So I climb high on
the mountain, the cool wind in my hair
And remember how it once was, and feel
this fierce kind of joy.
Knowing that once upon a time for a little while...
I had it all. ~ Sometimes, it is enough.
(Author Unknown)
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♦♥• THE NEW DAWN •♥♦
(Author: Timothy R. Laurence)
In endless fields they leap they fly
Through sunny meadows; mountains high
No more an earthbound care have they
A new dawn breaks not end of day.
We knew them once these creatures fair
A memory now for those who shared
Their lives their hearts their love their home
So saddened now that we're alone.
But soon there comes to us a dream
A passing distant joyful scene
Where now our own pet's loving soul
Beside a friendless creature strolls.
Their new companions tell of when
They walked the earth without a friend
But now in company with our own
They've found a new and better home.
Before we know this dream is gone
We wake again but with this dawn
Our hearts are light for now at last
We know the reason why they passed.
It was for love they'd left our side
To be with those who when they died
Had left this earth afraid alone
Unquite souls who had no home.
Far better then for us to know
To those in need our friends did go
For having shared our love with them
They've left to share it now again.
In distant fields they leap they fly
And shower love on those who died
No more an earthbound care have they
A new dawn breaks not end of day.
⊱♥⊰ ANGEL WINGS YOU WEAR... ⊱♥⊰~
The day you left broke our hearts
and the tears fell like rain,
but knowing that you now have wings
helps to ease the pain.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
We know now when the snow falls
it is Angel dust from you
and when we see a shooting star
our Angel just passed through.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
The rain drops do not make us sad
for they are not tears,
but sprinkles of love falling down,
our Angel again is near.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
The winter cold has even changed,
Jack Frost no longer exists,
it's now a visit from our Angel
and he's left a special gift.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
You also visit in the night,
your wings flutter with grace,
we know now when we awaken
that an Angel has kissed our face.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
When the days are warm and bright
and the sun shines from above,
we feel the warmth wrap around us,
you've given an Angel hug.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
You are with us at all times,
every day and night,
you try to end the pain we have
and the tears that we still cry.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Though Heaven is your home now
and Angel wings you wear,
you stay close to those you love,
until they join you there.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
FLY HIGH ANGEL FLY
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When God had made the Earth and sky,
The flowers and the trees,
He then made all the animals
And all the birds and bees.
And when his work was finished,
Not one was quite the same.
He said, "I'll walk this earth of mine,
And give each one a name,"
And so he travelled land and sea,
And everywhere he went,
A little creature followed Him
Until his strength was spent.
And when all were named upon the Earth,
And in the sky and sea,
The little creature said "Dear Lord,
There's not one left for me!"
The Father smiled and softely said:
"I've left you till the end.
I've turned my own name back to front,
And called you DOG, my friend."
For Ben....
Faithful Friend
Who is the one who loves me best
Who when I'm low wont let me rest
Who lays his paw upon my knee
And never fails to greet me
Who lets me hug him when I'm down
Yet never is the one to frown
Who brings to me his favourite toy
And fills my life with simple joy
Who is by my side on rainy days
And watches sky's with soulful gaze
Whose face does wear that silent plea
Oh please come out and play with me
Who understands that there are times
When I must say this minutes mine
Who knows I cant always be there
Yet makes me feel I'm being unfair
Who is this dog who loves me dearly
And yet with spirit knows so clearly
That by his side I will always be
Have I trained him?
......No, He's trained Me..Love Aunty Ann x
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SOLACE
(Written by Lisa Carmel Singer)
From the Silence of your pain, I heard my name
and on the wings of light I have come
to see the sadness in your eyes
that cry without tears. Can you see me, I am here.
I will always be near you,
to calm your shattered heart
and to make you smile at the memories.
Do you feel me, perhaps a soft brush of fur.
You ache to believe it's real
but you are afraid to hope
you brush away a strand of hair.
But it was I, whispering
I am only here for a moment.
The silver thread gently quivers
I will leave behind my love in a dream
When you awaken and without really knowing why
Your heart will know at last
That it is all right for now
to say goodbye.
SENDING YOU A BIG BEAR HUG....
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WITH LOTS OF LOVE AND KISSES,
ANN xxxxxxx
The Journey (Part 1)
When you bring a pet into your life, you begin a journey. A journey that will bring you more love and devotion than you have ever known, yet will also test your strength and courage. If you allow, the journey will teach you many things, about life, about yourself, and most of all, about love. You will come away changed forever, for one soul cannot touch another without leaving its mark.
Along the way, you will learn much about savoring life's simple pleasures -- jumping in leaves, snoozing in the sun, the joys of puddles, and even the satisfaction of a good scratch behind the ears. If you spend much time outside, you will be taught how to truly experience every element, for no rock, leaf, or log will go unexamined, no rustling bush will be overlooked, and even the very air will be inhaled, pondered, and noted as being full of valuable information.
Your pace may be slower, except when heading home to the food dish, but you will become a better naturalist, having been taught by an expert in the field. Too many times we hike on automatic pilot, our goal being to complete the trail rather than enjoy the journey. We miss the details: the colorful mushrooms on the rotting log, the honeycomb in the old maple snag, the hawk feather caught on a twig.
Once we walk as a dog does, we discover a whole new world. We stop; we browse the landscape, we kick over leaves, peek in tree holes, look up, down, all around. And we learn what any dog knows: that nature has created a marvelously complex world that is full of surprises, that each cycle of the seasons bring ever changing wonders, each day an essence all its own.
Even from indoors you will find yourself more attuned to the world around you. You will find yourself watching: summer insects collecting on a screen; how bizarre they are; how many kinds there are or noting the flick and flash of fireflies through the dark. You will stop to observe the swirling dance of windblown leaves, or sniff the air after a rain. It does not matter that there is no objective in this; the point is in the doing, in not letting life's most important details slip by.
You will find yourself doing silly things that your pet-less friends might not understand: spending thirty minutes in the grocery aisle looking for the cat food brand your feline must have, buying dog birthday treats, or driving around the block an extra time because your pet enjoys the ride. You will roll in the snow, wrestle with chewie toys, bounce little rubber balls till your eyes cross, and even run around the house trailing your bathrobe tie with a cat in hot pursuit, all in the name of love.
Your house will become muddier and hairier. You will wear less dark clothing and buy more lint rollers. You may find dog biscuits in your pocket or purse, and feel the need to explain that an old plastic shopping bag adorns your living room rug because your cat loves the crinkly sound. You will learn the true measure of love. The steadfast, undying kind that says, "It doesn't matter where we are or what we do, or how life treats us as long as we are together."
The Journey (Part 2)
Respect this always. It is the most precious gift any living soul can give another. You will not find it often among the human race. And you will learn humility. The look in my dog's eyes often made me feel ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence. She saw not some flawed human who could be cross and stubborn, moody or rude, but only her wonderful companion. Or maybe she saw those things and dismissed them as mere human foibles, not worth considering, and so chose to love me anyway.
If you pay attention and learn well, when the journey is done, you will be not just a better person, but the person your animal companion always knew you to be. The one they were proud to call beloved friend. I must caution you that this journey is not without pain. Like all paths of true love, the pain is part of loving. For as surely as the sun sets, one day your dear animal companion will follow a trail you cannot yet go down. And you will have to find the strength and love to let them go.
An animal companion's time on earth is far too short, especially for those that love them. We borrow them, really, just for a while, and during these brief years they are generous enough to give us all their love, every inch of their spirit and heart, until one day there is nothing left. The cat that only yesterday was a kitten is all too soon old and frail and sleeping in the sun. The young pup of boundless energy now wakes up stiff and lame, the muzzle gone to gray.
Deep down we somehow always knew that this journey would end. We knew that if we gave our hearts they would be broken. But give them we must for it is all they ask in return. When the time comes, and the road curves ahead to a place we cannot see, we give one final gift and let them run on ahead, young and whole once more. "God speed, good friend," we say, until our journey comes full circle and our paths cross again.
Crystal Ward Kent, 1998 (www.journeyforanimals.com) Reproduced by kind permission.
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